NAR Denver research

Is Buying a First Home Mainly a Married-Couple Milestone?

What does this mean for my decision?

The national data suggest a broader picture: married couples were 50% of first-time buyers in 2025, down from 75% in 1985. For a single or unmarried Denver-area buyer, the decision can start with a workable budget, property needs and a clear ownership plan.

By Rick Janson, JD/MBA Realtor®
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How can I use these findings?

Evaluate buying against your own recurring budget, reserves, intended use and time horizon. If you are buying with someone else, clarify contributions, ownership and what happens if a person moves before choosing a property; obtain appropriate professional advice for the arrangement. If one income will carry the costs, test how the budget handles a repair or income interruption. The national household mix broadens the conversation about who buys a first home without deciding whether buying now is right for you.

Which household shares changed the most?

Our original recalculation distinguishes percentage points from relative percent change. Single women’s11%-to 25% shift is a127.3% relative share increase; unmarried couples’4%-to 11% shift is 175%. These are shifts in shares of first-time buyers, not changes in the number of households.

The 1985 displayed categories sum to 99%, consistent with rounded source percentages;2025 sums to 100%. We retain the literal values and do not adjust a category to force the historical table to 100%.

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NAR first-time-buyer composition; original change calculations
First-time buyer household1985 share (%)2025 share (%)Change (percentage points)Relative share change (%)
Married couples7550-25-33.3
Single women112514127.3
Unmarried couples4117175
Single men910111.1
Other/roommates044Not defined: zero starting share

Sources: NAR: Dr. Jessica Lautz, Leaders in Luxury presentation, October 12, 2026; underlying research resources

What does one versus two budgets mean locally?

A $700,000 benchmark with 20% down produces about$3,540 monthly principal and interest under our assumed loan. Dividing that payment equally between two contributing adults produces a$1,770 arithmetic contribution each; it does not split ownership liability or establish loan eligibility.

Single does not mean low income, and married does not mean two incomes. This calculation models contributors, not marital status, and cannot infer a household’s financial capacity from the survey category.

Sources: REcolorado / InfoSparks: September 2026 monthly county single-family-residence snapshot; extracted October 12, 2026; Consumer Financial Protection Bureau: understanding a Loan Estimate and full payment components

What is the Denver research boundary?

No seven-county household-composition share is measured here. The national finding supports broadening the questions in a home search, while actual income, cash, intended ownership and property requirements remain individual inputs.

National first-time buyers by household composition

Unit: % of first-time buyers. Values are shown above each bar.

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018.837.556.3757511490502511104Married couplesSingle womenUnmarried couplesSingle menOther/roommates
  • 1985
  • 2025

Companion guide: Can I Plan a Denver Home Purchase Without Waiting for Marriage?

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